He's written me 3 songs and numerous poems. Another potential problem is their desire to avoid unpleasant conversations, which may leave some issues unresolved. She will say things just to be contrary. Sex is largely a physical experience to them, as opposed to a chance to share love and affection. If they bond over a hobby or interest, they will probably end up married very soon. So happy to find someone else like me! Unfortantely, while we appreciate who we are, it can be very challenging for non-thinkers, non-doers and non-traditionalists to understand and put up with us.
They observe the world and try to understand why things are the way they are, trying to figure out less than obvious connections between things. They like to keep people who share their values close to them. I'm sure there is post here somewhere about this combination in a relationship but didn't want to look that long. And when it doesn't work, it's ugly, very ugly. They like to be active in many ways, and they also like delegating. They place a high premium on family values and good old fashioned love making! They are grounded in practicality and reality, utilizing facts more than theory.
After finally opening up to each other, there are two things that may happen; either they'll totally fall in, or fall out. Once you've taken the test you will know whether you are an: Extravert E or an Introvert I - Do you draw energy from connecting with others extravert or from being in isolation introvert? You crave being out in social settings and you rarely mind being the center of attention. No one ever wanted to cuz I would always drink myself to tears, but he didn't mind. Both may refuse to budge on their standards and compromise. We often joke that I'd be living under a bridge somewhere if I weren't married to him.
They play by the rules and while they may give in to the odd impulsive action once in a while, they actually carry very high expectations for the individuals close to them. They will reliably honor birthdays, holidays, and family obligations. Most of the time it isn't even because we're angry with each other; we just have very strong differing opinions and have to intellectually duke it out until one of us admits the other is right. So don't insist on them accompanying you to each and every party. While relationships between two people of such differing personality types often doesn't work out well, if you put the effort into it to making it work, these can be the most rewarding relationships ever! Thinker T or a Feeler F - Are you people-oriented feeler or logic-oriented thinker when it comes to your decision-making process? I am notoriously terrible at stupid things like getting paperwork turned in on time, taking out trash, etc. But that is exactly how they are, and they will handle both their relationships and work through this approach.
Their by-the-book approach does make them seem dull sometimes. When we fight, we resolve it very quickly because we're very good at being explicitly honest with each other in the best way possible. They both trust and perceive what they take in through patterns, impressions, and abstract conceptual ideas. In his research, he has made observations that have allowed him to combine two of the four sets of preferences, into four distinct temperament categories. The thinking-feeling preference difference may lead to some clashes and conflicts. Social, healthy, spiritual, it all depends.
How to resolve this problem: — This is an area where both partners need to find some middle ground. After all, every relationship needs some differences to spice things a little. Of course, as the initial euphoria recedes, they'll realize how different they are, and may end up fighting over petty things. Be willing to explain your values and behavior to them. On the negative side, they may sometimes compete for airtime because both are extremely talkative. As friends, we were great together. I loved hanging out with him and getting to know him, and I'm sure he felt the same.
Im an estj and my wife an infj and all i can say is i wish i was more caring about not only her feelings but empathetic in general. It is unlikely that they will be spontaneous or unpredictable and may even be seen as boring by some other personality types. A surprise getaway for the weekend sounds super-romantic, doesn't it? Although Myers-Briggs matchmaking is a popular concept, it does not accurately predict compatibility when used without Instincts. I'm super late to the party, but hey. The partner is more comfortable looking for a practical solution than listening with a sympathetic ear. Thanks guys for all your input. We are naturally attracted to people with strengths and abilities that balance out our weaknesses.
The extroversion-introversion combination will help to balance things out. As a result, this relationship requires a little more work for the both of us. Introverted Feeling: the ability to form emotional conclusions that act as a source of ethics, ideals, and moral vision. In reality, though, things can work out quite different. The conversations were always good and happy. This lack of communication may make the relationship less satisfying for both.