In his mind, everything I said or did was a result of my mood disorder. Someone with a different history - say, a girlfriend of yours - would get different treatment from you, yes? You have to choose whether you are going to live with that fact. This has never happened to me but it would devastate and hurt me very deeply. I havent confronted him about it, mainly because im waiting to see how long he keeps it up. Are you yourself on dating sites and found out through your own account that he has been logged on? My grandma from years of experience has always told me, men will never change! The candy store is always open.
. If you choose to stay with him, know that it is your choice and feel empowered about it. I told him last Friday that I had been snooping around in his computer and know about his flirting. When confronted he acts like no big deal but you can tell he is nervous, this is hard for me because we just had a baby 2-months ago. These are all big, huge questions, and ones that we'd be better off exploring in a. Something horrible happened, and now you don't trust your partner.
The first thing you need to do is to make sure if your boyfriend is under the same impression. And Im scared because he dosent have any real family, his mum passed with cancer when our 1st was born and he does not know who his father is. But then he sent me an odd text saying he loves me. At that point I did get mad and told him to leave. It has nothing to do with you, that speaks more about his character.
If it becomes an ongoing issue, I'd likely call my local authorities to see what I could do on a more formal level. I get all kinds of answers to that question. The other possibility in your situation might be that your boyfriend left his own phone somewhere, and you grabbed it, saw the dating spam, and were confused as to where it came from. He has concluded you are not the one. He said he didn't even communicate with anyone. He said he has nothing to hide. You are the only one who can choose whether you want to turn a blind eye or end it with him.
We broke up for about 3 months, saw each other occasionally and one day he came back saying he loved me and he did want us to be together, I gave it another chance. Should you even tell them at all? Most of us end up learning the hard way. That may motivate him to seek help for himself, but that is his problem and his alone. I say you can forgive someone but never forget what they do to your heart This kind of behavior is typical of a sex addict. Signed: Concerned Girlfriend Dear Concerned Girlfriend, This is a very interesting question, and it really depends on how you feel about your boyfriend. My dating experiences have opened me up to individuals who are very different from me as well. You will only feel disrespect in return.
I strongly suggest focusing on a solution to this issue, instead of thinking about what your boyfriend did in the past. I have asked him several times to come clean but he denies hes done anything with anyone. If he was really unsatisfied with you he would communicate what he needs out of the relationship. Once you have and are happy with that person, unless it's a site like this where you do make some same sex friends and have the forums which I think are great, there's just no reason to have the profile. Nothing will come of talking for until he has met someone else he wants you as the live in and wants some other deserts on the side.
Also sign him up for tons of gay porn, scat porn and sex toy catalogues and get it delivered to his house especially if he still lives with his parents or a load of flatmates. Other than this, I'm with him every weekend and we talk everyday and we have a great relationship. Are you happy with the situation? Some couples, after they break up, realize how much they really loved each other and how petty their conflicts were. Crying has been the best medicine for me and keeping my self busy with things i love to do, no matter how lonely or sad you feel do not give another chance. Am I really, really stupid to stay with him, or do I just have an oversized ego and all this is actually good news since he is in contact with other women, learns a lot about love, and I benefit from that at last? I felt I'm not lovable and well. Like you, I would probably question if I did something wrong or what was amiss in the relationship.
I checked his call log and there were calls while I was at work and while I was sleeping to a local chat line. It is time to see the truth, as it will help you begin to heal. Arrrrgh, I havent been able to talk to anybody really about all this so this is a big rant I guess, but I do feel a bit better letting it all out, just a bit of relief I guess knowing Im not the only one going through it……. I had an ex who constantly spoke about his ex. I had no intentions of carring anything through, I just felt very angry with him and unloved, so I thought what is good for the goose is good for the gander childish I know. When I accepted my diagnosis and life with bipolar disorder, I finally found my confident self, but I had to overcome some obstacles to get there. Confronted him and he snapped saying he wasn't ready for a realationship.