I stepped away after some time and stopped any communication between her and I. His 'ex' had told him to move out. From divided loyalties, torn emotions, open hostility and constant battles over money and access to children, each chapter brings fresh fictional horror. Both got married and divorced. Staying together at first ex-wife seeks to a lunatic.
He can still see his kids without living there and that is a situation the kids will have to get used to. I told him to tell her to stop texting about everything and limit it to only details regarding their child — he is not her husband! She's thrown her towel on the floor and made her pick it up and told her she deserves it because she is wasting her time etc. But his daughter calls me mama. We let the kids talk to her, her parents, her boyfriends or whoever else wants to talk without interrupting them. She left , she ruined the family she had but she wants the life style she had.
I have two girls who have been through a divorce and are level headed and polite so I am not expecting miracles from his children I am just expecting a bit of politeness and support! Fact is, we were probably always the kind of people just looking for the damn cliff; we just needed a partner to take the leap alongside us. Shes the kind of person who thinks she better than all the rest and talks down to my botfriend all the time. I have come to terms with the fact that she is a necessary evil, he married her and they share a child, so we are stuck with her. As she read on in horror, each new sentence was seeped in venom and vitriol - accusing her of sleeping around and being an unfit mother to the child she adored. Karen Same here I do everything for my stepdaughter and she doesnt even say goodbye to me before going back to her mother. There is no way a meeting would go smoothly.
T because I was unable to have children myself. Her mother on the other hand is not. At roughly at one ex a man without. He gives her a lot of money every month but she wont spend it on them. She frequently flies off the handle at him via text and I doubt it would be any different with me in person. She saw me at the store one day and assaulted me. The best thing to do is not to react at all.
I have been around his kids maybe a handful of times in the last year. Donna yes my husband blocked her from calling and texting which was good for us. These are questions I wrestle with on a daily basis. We did not exchange numbers or anything. File for divorce, get your name off of anything shared, take what you want to keep and know that anything of personal value that you leave behind will either be destroyed or sold in a garage sale. We should talk more about this topic. Ive been married forever and we have 3 children together.
Have any of you dated a man with kids? But there is no communicating with the crazy. God gave me for about his ex-wife used the dilemma i started dating. He refused to speak or return calls or texts, no matter what the subject and no matter how provocative. I have had the unfortunate experience of dealing with this situation from a third party perspective. I also know, she is not welcome in our home used to be her home ugh, if she is going to make derogatory comments about me even if its not really about me. He has finally blocked the ex wife from his phone.
But every time I tried his ex wife would do something to hurt him or his daughter. It was the most awful thing ever. Keep all communications business-like and do not respond to anything not pertaining specifically to your children. We were fine, we got un-fine, we found the fine again. He is a wonderfully kind, honest good man, a keeper by all standards. So I witnessed everything, virtually from the beginning.
I want to get over it , it will eat me up cause It will not change. Tell him the children are grown up and he needs to treat them that way in spite of the ex trying to maintain the former family structure of minor children. He is only a baby, a little over a year and a half and it's sad that she won't let us take him because she doesn't want us to have the family she didn't. She even went to my husbands place and tell my husband to go back to her. She used to text my husband all of the time about all sorts of things.